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Wedding Ceremony Inside of Mass

The text presented here is a sample of the typical Catholic wedding ceremony Inside of Mass. Couples have options as to prayers, readings, vows and blessings and inclusion of ceremonies of other traditions. Please consult with your priest or deacon to further customize the ceremony.

GREETING AND PRAYER

O. Friends, we are gathered here today to witness the marriage of N. and N. Let us call upon God to be with us today as we celebrate this union of two into one. In the name of the Father, + the Son and the Holy Spirit.

O. The Peace be with you.
P. And also with you.
P. Amen.

O. Let us pray.

OPENING PRAYER

PRAYER A

O. Almighty God, hear our prayers for N. and N. who have come here today to be united in the sacrament of marriage. Increase their faith in you and in each other, and through them bless your church. Make their love fruitful so that they may be living witnesses to your divine love in the world. We ask this through our Lord Jesus Christ, your Son, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, forever and ever.

P. Amen.

PRAYER B

O. Almighty God, hear our prayers for N. and N., who have come before your altar to be united in the sacrament of marriage. Give them your blessing, and strengthen their love for each other. We ask this through our Lord Jesus Christ, your Son, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever.
P. Amen.

LITURGY OF THE WORD

Usually the couple selects five readings, one each: an "Old Testament reading, a Responsorial Psalm, a New Testament reading, an Alleluia verse and a Gospel reading. If there is a singer, the Responsorial Psalm and Alleluia verse may be sung. The Responsorial Psalm and Alleluia verse may also be omitted or replaced with non scripture readings. Family and friends may be selected to proclaim the readings, excluding the Gospel which is usually proclaimed by the priest or deacon.

HOMILY (Sermon)

MARRIAGE RITE

Officiant may ask, depending upon location, every one to stand, or the Bride and Groom stand, if seated. The Officiant addresses the Bride and Groom in one of these ways:

CONSENT

CONSENT FORM A
O. N. and N., you have come together here today so that the Lord may seal and strengthen your love in the presence of the Church's minister and this community. Christ abundantly blesses this love. He has already consecrated you in baptism and now enriches and strengthens you by a special sacrament so that you may assume the duties of marriage in mutual and lasting fidelity. And so, in the presence of the church here present, I ask you to state your intentions.
P. Amen.

CONSENT FORM B
O. N. and N., you have come together here today so that the Lord may seal and strengthen your love in the presence of the Church's minister and this community of your family and friends. In this way you will be strengthened to keep mutual and lasting faith with each other and to carry out the other duties of marriage. And so, in the presence of the church this community of your family and friends, I ask you to state your intentions.
P. Amen.

CONSENT

N. and N., have you come here freely and without reservation to give yourselves to each other in marriage?

Will you love and honor each other as husband and wife for the rest of your lives?

Will you accept children lovingly from God and bring them up according to the Law of Love and Compassion?

Since it is your intention to enter into marriage, with your hands joined and declare your consent before God and his Church, this community of your family and friends.

EXCHANGE OF VOWS

VOWS FORM A
G. I, N., take you, N., to be my wife. I promise to be true to you in good times and in bad, in sickness and in health. I will love you and honor you all the days of my life.

B.I, N., take you, N., to be my husband. I promise to be true to you in good times and in bad, in sickness and in health. I will love you and honor you all the days of my life.

VOWS FORM B
G. I, GROOM, take you, BRIDE, for my lawful wife, to have and to hold, from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, (a) until death due us part. (b) forever. (c) all the days of my life.

B.I, BRIDE, take you, GROOM, for my lawful husband, to have and to hold, from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, (a) until death due us part. (b) forever. (c) all the days of my life.

VOWS FORM C
G. I, GROOM, take you, BRIDE, to be my wife, to be the mother of our children, to be the companion of my heart. I promise to love you and to be true to you in good times and in bad all the days of my life.

B.I, BRIDE, take you, GROOM, to be my husband, to be the father of our children, to be the companion of my heart. I promise to love you and to be true to you in good times and in bad all the days of my life.

VOWS FORM D
G. I, GROOM, take you, BRIDE, to be my wife, to be the mother of our children, to be the companion of my heart. I promise to love you and to be true to you in good times and in bad all the days of my life.

I, BRIDE, take you, GROOM, to be my husband, to be the father of our children, to be the companion of my heart. I promise to love you and to be true to you in good times and in bad all the days of my life.
P. Amen.

VOWS FORM E
G. GROOM, do you take BRIDE for your lawful wife, to have and to hold, from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, (a) until death due you part? (b) forever? (c) all the days of your life?

G. BRIDE, do you take GROOM for your lawful husband, to have and to hold, from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, (a) until death due you part? (b) forever? (c) all the days of your life?
P. Amen.

VOWS FORM F
O. If you will be writing your own vows, please provide a copy to the priest at least one week prior to the wedding for inclusion in his materials. In that way he can make your wedding ceremony work seamlessly.
P. Amen.

Receiving their consent the priest says:

CONFIRMATION OF VOWS
You have declared your consent before the Church and this community of your family and friends. May the Lord in his goodness strengthen your consent and fill you with his + blessings. What God has joined together, let no one separate. P. Amen.

BLESSING AND EXCHANGE OF RINGS

RING BLESSING FORM A
O. Lord, bless these rings which we bless + in your name. Grant that those who wear them may always do you will and live together in peace and compassion. We ask this through Christ our Lord.
P. Amen.

RING BLESSING FORM B
O. Lord, bless + and consecrate N. and N. in their love and compassion for each other. May these rings be a symbol of true faith they share in each other and always remind them of their love and compassion. We ask this through Christ our Lord.
P. Amen.

The bridegroom places his wife's ring on her finger. He may say:
N., take this ring as a sign of my love and fidelity. (In the name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit.)

The bride places the ring on her husband's finger. She may say:
N., take this ring as a sign of my love and fidelity. (In the name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit.

UNITY CANDLE (Optional)

(Mother (Groom) and Mother (Bride) may come forward to altar and light a small candle each from altar candle or with assistance of Best Man. Mothers turn and gave candle to B & G. B & G go to altar and light Unity Candle.) or (Bride and Groom come forward, light a small candle each from altar candle or with assistance of Best Man and light Unity Candle) as officiant says:

The Unity Candle is both a symbol of the union of two separate lives into one and a sign of God's light and presence. I encourage you to light this candle on each anniversary remembering this day, of the promises made and God's promise to dispel the darkness and be present with you in your marriage always.
P. Amen.

GENERAL INTERCESSIONS

O. Dear friends, we have witnessed the exchange of promises by N. and N.. Let us ask the Lord to strengthen their love for each other.

Best Man/O. For N. and N., as they begin their married life together, may they always know Your presence in good times and in bad. Let us pray to the Lord.
P. Lord, hear our prayer.

M. Honor/O. For their families, may they be good examples of love and faithfulness as they support N. and N., in their marriage. Let us pray to the Lord.
P. Lord, hear our prayer.

Best Man/O. For those who have fallen asleep in Christ, (especially N. ), may the memory of their presence in the Kingdom of God be an inspiration to N. and N. throughout their lives. Let us pray to the Lord.
P. Lord, hear our prayer.

M. Honor/O. For those here present, may we find Christ's love for us mirrored in N. and N's. love for each other. Let us pray to the Lord.
P. Lord, hear our prayer.

O: Lord, hear the prayers of your Church, this assembly of the family and friends of N. and N.. May N. and N. celebrate the joy of your Presence in their hearts and home, with each other, their family and friends, and with whomever they meet. Please grant what we request in the name of Christ, your Son.
P. Amen.

LITURGY OF THE EUCHARIST

The bread and wine used in the Eucharist may be brought forward by the couple, members of their family or others as designated.
O. Blessed are you Lord, God of all creation. Through you goodness we have this bread to offer which earth has given and human hands have made. It will become for us the bread of life.
P. Blessed be God forever.

O. By the mixing of this water and wine may we come to share in the divinity of Christ who humbled himself to share in our humanity.

Blessed are you, Lord, God of all creation. Through you goodness we have this wine to offer, fruit of the vine and work of human hands. It will become our spiritual drink.
P. Blessed be God forever.

O. Lord God, please accept this sacrifice which we offer you with humble and contrite hearts.

Lord wash away my iniquities, cleanse me from my sins.

Pray Friends, that our Eucharist may be acceptable to God our Almighty and Loving Father.

P. May the Lord accept the sacrifice at your hands for the praise and glory of His name, for our good and the good of al his Church.

PRAYER OVER THE GIFTS

O. Let us pray.

PRAYER A
O. Lord, accept our offering for this new married couple, N. and N. By your love and providence you have brought them together; now bless them all the days of their married life. We ask this through Christ our Lord.
P. Amen.

PRAYER B
O. Lord, accept the gifts we offer you on this happy day. In your fatherly love and compassion watch over and protect N. and N. whom you have united in marriage. We ask this through Christ our Lord.
P. Amen.

EUCHARISTIC PRAYER

O. The Lord be with you.

P. And also with you.

O. Lift up your hearts.

P. We lift them up to the Lord.

O. Let us give thanks to the Lord our God.

P. It is right to give him thanks and praise.

O. Father, all powerful and ever living God, we do well always and everywhere to give you thanks.

You created us in love to share your divine life. We see our high destiny in the love of husband and wife, which bears the imprint of your own divine love.

Love is our origin, love is our constant calling, love is our fulfillment in heaven.

The love of man and woman is made holy in the sacrament of marriage, and becomes the mirror of your everlasting love. Through Christ the choirs of angels and all the saints praise and worship your glory. May our voices blend with theirs as we join in their unending hymn:

P. Holy, Holy, Holy Lord, God of power and might. Heaven and earth are full of your glory. Hosanna in the highest. Blessed is he who comes in the name of the Lord. Hosanna in the highest.

O. Lord, you are holy indeed, the fountain of all holiness. Let your spirit come upon these gifts to make them holy, so that they may become for us the body + and blood of your Son our Lord Jesus Christ.

Before he was given up to death, a death he freely accepted, he took bread and gave you thanks. He broke the bread, gave it to his disciples, and said: Take this, all of you, and eat it: this is my body which will be given up for you.

When supper was ended, he took the cup. Again, he gave you thanks and praise, gave the cup to his disciples and said: Take this, all of you, and drink from it: this is the cup of my blood, the blood of the new and everlasting covenant. It will be shed for you and for all so that sins may be forgiven. Do this is in memory of me.

Let us proclaim the mystery of our faith.

P. Christ has died. Christ has risen. Christ will come again.

O. In memory of his death and resurrection, we offer you Father, this life-giving bread, this saving cup. We thank you for counting us worthy to stand in your presence and serve you. May all of us who share in the body and blood of Christ be brought together in unity by the Holy Spirit.

Lord, remember your church throughout the world; make us grow in love together with N, our bishop, with the patriarchs of Alexandria, Antioch, Constantinople, Jerusalem and Rome and with all the bishops, priests and deacons you have called to service.

Remember our brothers and sisters who have gone to their rest in the hope of rising again; bring them and all the departed into the light of your presence. Have mercy on us all; make us worthy to share eternal life with Mary, the virgin Mother of God, with the apostles, and all the saints who have done your will throughout the ages. May we praise you in union with them, and give you glory through your Son, Jesus Christ.

For it is through Him and with Him and in Him in the unity of the Holy Spirit that all glory and honor is yours Almighty Father, forever and ever.

P. Amen.

O. Let us pray together in the words Jesus gave us.

P. Our Father who art in heaven, hallowed be thy name. Thy kingdom come, thy will be done on earth as it is in heaven. Give us this day our daily bread and forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us. Lead us not into temptation but deliver us from evil. Amen.

The priest extends his hands inviting all in attendance to join and continues with aNuptial Blessing People may remain standing for the Nuptial Blessings.

NUPTIAL BLESSING

NUPTIAL BLESSING A
O. My dear friends, let us turn to the Lord and pray that he will bless with his grace this woman N. now married in Christ to this man N. and that he will unite in love the couple he has joined in this holy bond.

Father, by your plan man and woman are united, and married life has been established as the one blessing that was not forfeited by original sin or washed away in the flood.

Look with love upon this woman, your daughter, now joined to her husband in marriage. She asks your blessing. Give her the grace of love and peace. May she always follow the example of the holy women whose praises are sung in the scriptures.

May her husband put his trust in her and recognize that she is his equal and the heir with him to the life of grace. May he always honor her and love her as Christ loves his bride, the Church.

Father, keep them always true to your commandments. Keep them faithful in marriage and let them be living examples of Christian life. Give them the strength which comes from the gospel so that they may be witnesses of Christ to others. (Bless them with children and help them be good parents. May they live to see their children's children.) And, after a happy old age, grant them fullness of life with the saints in the kingdom of heaven. We ask this through Christ our Lord. P. Amen.

NUPTIAL BLESSING B
O. Let us pray to the Lord for N. and N. who come here at the beginning of their married life so that they may always be united in love for each other.
Holy Father, you created humankind in your own image and made man and woman to be joined as husband and wife in union of body and heart and so fulfill their mission in this world.

Lord, grant that as they begin to live this sacrament they may share with each other the gifts of your love and become one in heart and mind as witnesses to your presence in their marriage. Help them to create a home together (and give them children to be formed by the gospel and to have a place in your family).

Give your blessing to N., your daughter, so that she may be a good wife (and mother), caring for the home, faithful in love for her husband, generous and kind.

Give your blessing to N., your son, so that he may be a good husband (and father), caring for the home, faithful in love for his wife, generous and kind.

Father, grant that as they come together to you table on earth, so that they may one day have the joy of sharing your feast in heaven. We ask this through Christ our Lord. P. Amen.

O. Lord Jesus Christ, you said to your apostles: I leave you peace, my peace I give to you. Look not on our sins, but on the faith or your Church, and grant is the peace and unity of your kingdom where you live for ever and ever.

P. Amen.

O. The peace of the Lord be always with you.

P. And also with you.
O. Let us offer each other a sign of Christ's peace.

ROSES TO PARENTS (Optional)

Bride and Groom may each give a long stem, dethorned, non-red rose to respective mother-in-law, Groom presenting first to Bride's mother, then Bride to Groom's mother.

BREAKING OF THE BREAD

In the early church liturgy was celebrated in different places each week. A piece of the Eucharistic bread from the previous Sunday was saved and commingled as a sign of unity with the other community. We invite all to remember their churches of origin and know that they are one in breaking of the bread.

O. Lamb of God you take away the sins of the world.

P. Have mercy on us.

O. Lamb of God you take away the sins of the world.

P. Have mercy on us.

O. Lamb of God you take away the sins of the world.

P. Grant us peace.

O. May the mingling of the body and blood of Christ bring salvation to those who receive it.

Lord Jesus Christ, with faith in your love and mercy, we eat your body and drink your blood. May they not bring us condemnation but health in mind and body.

This is the lamb of God who takes away the sins of the world. Happy are we who are called to his supper.

Lord, I am not worthy to receive you, but only say the word and I shall be healed.

May the body and blood of our Lord Jesus Christ give eternal life to those who receive them.

COMMUNION

(As an ecumenical community
all are welcome
to the table of the Lord to share
with Bride and Groom in the one bread and the one cup
regardless of your faith community.)

CONCLUSION OF THE CELEBRATION

PRAYER AFTER COMMUNION

O. The Lord be with you.

P. And also with you.

O. Let us pray.

Lord, in you love your have given us this Eucharist to unite us to one another and with you, As you have made N. and N. one in this sacrament of marriage and in the sharing of the one bread and the one cup, so now make them one in your love for each other. We ask this through Christ our Lord.
P. Amen.

THE SOLEMN BLESSING

SOLEMN BLESSING FORM A

O.God the eternal Father keep you in love with each other, so that the peace of Christ may stay with you and be always in your home.

P. Amen.

O.May (your children bless you,) your friends console you and all people live in peace with you.

P. Amen.

O.May you always bear witness to the love of God in this world so that the afflicted and the needy will find in you generous friends, and welcome you in the joys of heaven.

P. Amen.

O.And may Almighty God bless each and every one of us, the Father, and the Son, and the Holy Spirit.

P. Amen.

SOLEMN BLESSING FORM B

O.May God, the almighty Father give you his joy and bless you (in your children).

P. Amen.

O.May the only Son of God have mercy on you and help you in good times and in bad.

P. Amen.

O.May the Holy Spirit of God always fill you hearts with his love.

P. Amen.

O.And may Almighty God bless each and every one of us, the Father, and the Son, and the Holy Spirit.

P. Amen.

Solemn Blessing C

O. May almighty God, with his Word of blessing, unite your hearts in the never ending bond of pure love.

P. Amen.

O.(May your children bring you happiness, and may your generous love for them be returned to you, many times over.)

P. Amen.

O.May the Spirit of Love live always in your hearts and in your home. May you have true friends to stand by you, both in joy and in sorrow. May you ready and willing to help and comfort all who come to you in need. And may the blessings promised to the compassionate be yours in abundance.

P. Amen.

O.May you find happiness and satisfaction in your work. May daily problems never cause you any undue anxiety, nor the desire for earthly possessions dominate your lives. But may your heart's first desire be always your compassionate presence toward each other.

P. Amen.

O.May the Lord bless you with many happy years together, so that you may enjoy the rewards of a good life.

P. Amen.

O. And may Almighty God bless each and every one of us, the Father, and the Son, and the Holy Spirit.

P. Amen.

PRESENTATION My dear friends, it is my pleasure to introduce you to Mr and Mrs N.

DISMISSAL
O. Go in peace to love and serve the Lord and each other.
P. Thanks be to God.

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